How to approach a girl ?

       There she is. Just a few steps away... Looking gorgeous, laughing and chatting away with her friends, unaware that a person is waiting around with his heart beating wildly ... unable to walk the few steps to reach her. Yet, you so desperately want to talk to her.

  • Are you tapping your head to find at least one sensible reason to approach her?

  • Are you afraid of the icy cool glance she may throw your way?

  • Are you apprehensive of being rudely snubbed which can shatter your dreams in the fraction of a second?

Hang on! Wipe your cold sweat... and check this out. This may be just what you are looking for:

  • Firstly - Pre decide that you are going to approach 10 girls and  8 out of them are going to turn you down. This psychological makeup helps those who need courage.

  • Secondly just shake yourself up, get up and move. If you don't help yourself nobody can. There is a saying - 'God helps those who help themselves.' So REACH OUT!

  • Thirdly - Learn to DARE. Go up and talk to the person you want to. If you don't some one else will. And she will remain a stranger to you for the rest of your life. Remember 'There has to be a beginning somewhere'.

  • Lastly - Take the response sportingly. Never mind if you are snubbed. You'll at least get the satisfaction of having tried.

DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT PEOPLE & AT DIFFERENT TIMES:

People are not machines. Therefore there is always a right approach, a right time, a right situation and the right things to say - to different persons.

A SENIOR SCHOOL STUDENT:

There is a girl in your class and every time you see her. Your heart skips a beat. How do you befriend her to begin with?

  • If she has been absent on a particular day offer to help her out.

  • Enter into a common discussion with her like movies, books, the latest event in town, the TV program she views, preparation for the board exam, career planning etc.

  • DON'T seem to be overanxious to please her (through you may want to desperately).

  • Once you have gained her confidence you'll can exchange phone numbers.

  • DON'T plague her with phone calls or blank calls.

  • Remember always stay within you limits. DON'T be too 'pushy' with a girl. She'll run away!

  • Have fun ... gain a good friend. You both are too young for a commitment.

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