-
Be
interested in her sincerely. Try to know more about her. For God's sake
don't be too inquisitive and probing. Set your limits for this date.
-
Don't go
on endlessly about YOURSELF. She will find you a big bore and a terrible
egoist!
-
Ask
questions. Be a good listener. Wait for her to complete what she has to
say.
-
Make her
feel exclusive and don't let your attention get diverted with any
gorgeous female around you.
-
Don't
display possessiveness. This might make her want to catch the first cab
back home.
-
While on
your first few dates don't let cell phones or pager beeps disturb you.
-
Learn to
give sincere compliments.
-
Choose to
go to such places where both of you can be in peace and feel completely
comfortable.
-
Gals love
guys who have sense of humour. So relax and lighten up! Arm yourself
with a handful of cool jokes. Remember the jokes you choose to crack or
laugh at say a lot about your inner self.
-
Be sure to
drop her home before you'll part.
-
You need
to be honest with your date but you need not spend your first or second
date talking of your ex girlfriend.
-
Don't pour
out all your hang-ups to her on your first few dates. You all have got
together to have some fun and she would not like to assume the role of
an 'agony aunt' or 'shrink'.
-
The way
you communicate with your date is important. Phrase your words smoothly
so that you do not sound offensive or crude.
-
Timing is
very important. There is always a right time to pitch the idea. You
should not talk too much too soon.
-
Intimate
details of your life can wait. First get to know her well. Allow time
for your friendship and feelings to blossom.
If the date
went off well, had a great time together, you may get flowers delivered to
her the next day with a special message, call up and tell her so. Proceed
further. Be sincere and honest. That shines through the rest.