Your   FIRST FEW  Telephone Calls!!

(The Biggest Problem )

Now it's time to impress her with your "gift of the gab".

• Don't leave more than two days gap since the day you all first met to call her up.

• The first time you call her up - do call at a decent hour, preferably in the evening. Excuse yourself for having disturbed her.

• Greet her with a smile. It is reflected in your tone and the person on the other end can know that and visualize you.

• Discuss your last meeting (in this case your first with her). Talk on subjects pertaining to that day. Say - "It has been nice meeting you".

• Keep the conversation short and sweet. Use humour. Ask questions… Let her talk. This helps her in opening up and in shedding her psychological barrier. She should not feel you are piling on too heavily. Else she'll want you off her back.

• The second and third time you call do not let your conversation get too personal. Have lighthearted talks on mutual interests. The duration of your call should not be too long either.

• By now you would be knowing her routine adequately. Call her up at a time when she's free and doesn't have anything to do. She'll be more relaxed and will have the time to talk to you.

• If she likes you she'll be friendly and prolong the conversation. If she doesn't like your advances she'll be the abrupt and reserved.

• If she's equally interested as you are, she'll definitely call you up. This is the time you can ask for a date. Arrange to meet each other somewhere you'd both feel at ease and enjoy.

• Don't call her up too frequently. Her parents may have an objection. She too may get fed up.

• Finally DON'T give blank calls. (Most Important)